Complexities of Love...

Come think of it, love is a very complicated emotion. Try asking yourself why you love someone and the answers don't seem very obvious. Or satisfactory. "Because he/she loves me" seems shallow when talking of love. It's not easy to explain love or even why you love someone. Love is difficult. Or seems so...

Hate on the other hand is very simple. It's simple to hate someone, and simple to explain why you hate them. "He did this to me. I want to **** him." It's straightforward. It's easy.

Loving is difficult. That's what makes it beautiful. It's everlasting. Not having a reason to love, no rational arguments, no explanations is what makes it magical. In that way, love can be very simple if you don't try to find a reason for it. But you need to let yourself love. You need to take a leap of faith and trust someone with yourself before you can love or let someone love you. Trusting someone else completely, believing they will not hurt you or break your heart, doesn't come naturally to us. It takes a lot of courage to do that. Probably, that's what makes it so difficult.

Hate might seem very intense at the time, but it fades away with time. True love doesn't. It can't. Once you've loved truly, it stays with you forever. It becomes a part of you forever...